get out - take what you can and go to the nearest police stationa nd ask for help. here in the UK they'd help find you a refuge and you could speak to a solicitor about divorce and help yourself protection. but please please just get out now. good luck

loobie - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/30/2008 8:18:57 AMComment ID: 26819- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

Yes, do as loobie says. Get the help and protection that you need before you end up as another missing person or worst still, a statistic. Good luck.

Frances - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/30/2008 8:22:36 AMComment ID: 26822- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

im in australia terrified and your help lines are the same as mine, you can ring st vincent de pauls on 1300223932 free call, i just spoke to them aqnd they can have some one pick you up, call them please!!!! i spoke to a lady called margret. she can take you to a safe house, please seek help as soon as possible! my thoughts r with youxx

mands - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/30/2008 8:45:34 AMComment ID: 26830- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

Thanks for that Mands. This lady needs immediate help and not being in the UK I was not able to tell her where to get that help. I hope she is sorted now.

Frances - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/30/2008 8:57:01 AMComment ID: 26834- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

it is a secure number frances, and wherever she is im told they will have someone there within the hour

mands - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/30/2008 9:00:04 AMComment ID: 26835- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

'terrified,' you don't have to thank me, just stay where you are ive just spoken to margaret again, you WILL be protected and they will be there before he is back. 'terrified' my heart breaks for you, go get comfort and help and know you are safe tonight, please, oh, please let me know when you are in a safe place, i'm so worried for you, please get in contact again!

mands - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/30/2008 9:17:44 AMComment ID: 26844- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

This Is truly a happy ending... Good job girls! And I am so proud terrified!

Ambylue - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/30/2008 10:11:36 AMComment ID: 26858- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

Agreed, I've tried to click on the number to vote for this to be stuck on the front page but I'm getting an error message. It's certainly more important than "Not So Hot" or "Abusing My Knickers".

MacVillain - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/30/2008 10:21:01 AMComment ID: 26859- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

It is good news and this is exactly what happens in the UK should the need arise. I have tried to click the number to but it's not working.

Frances - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/30/2008 10:56:15 AMComment ID: 26862- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

wow i have just caught the message *which is awfull and all the replys wow you guys are lovely and i hope she updates on if she is ok ect

my best of luck to her, i can imagen it took alot of courage to ring just like that. -x-x-

shaney - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/30/2008 1:48:43 PMComment ID: 26883- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

We've made this the top-rated problem on the site, good job everyone. Hopefully Terrified will write back when she's safe and let us know what's happening. Special thanks to Mands for finding the phone number for St. Vincent de Paul. I wonder if they're the same group we have in the US?

MacVillain - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/31/2008 12:33:49 AMComment ID: 26917- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

Let's hope that this lass is safe and free from fear at last. I think special praise goes to Mands for getting the ball rolling, you know what you may just have saved this girls life Mands, well done. I hope the creep who put her through this gets his just desserts.

loobie - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/31/2008 5:00:58 AMComment ID: 26927- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

mands - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/31/2008 9:01:56 AMComment ID: 26962- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

opps sorry, pressed the wrong button MacVillain, i can only assume it would be the same organization, they were able to give me the new zealand number so fast, thankgod, as i was shaking like a leaf, the lady i spoke to was just amazing, lets all hope we hear from terrified soon and that she is safe not terrified anymore, and please i dont need any thanks, you all would have done the exact same thing if this was near you, you guys helped me, its scary but good that i was online last night, cheers mandy x

mands - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 1/31/2008 9:07:47 AMComment ID: 26963- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

this man is way out of order he's manuplating you killing u is wat he says but to me that sounds like a treat hun: wen u get out, run far away from him thats ul u can do n dont look bk
im sorry

Anonymous - Posted: 2/17/2008 9:32:48 AMComment ID: 28406- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

stay strong contactyour family if you can

Anonymous - Posted: 2/28/2008 5:10:17 AMComment ID: 29681- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

i feel so sorry for you im crying already, my heart bleeds for you but i can tell you this, trust the lord and pray regularily...have faith and with a little patience, all will be ok

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Please take care, I hope you manage to escape from the prison your husband put you in, sweetheart. xx

xviiiJORJA - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 3/1/2008 11:13:21 AMComment ID: 29927- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

ye i agree with all the others, you have to get yourself away from him, the next time you are allowed out for the month get yourself to the police station and they can advise you what to do next. Contact your family or friends so you have the support of people who lovwe you. If you don't want to go yourself ask a friend to go with you. I realy hope you escape from this situation honey. xx

Anonymous - Posted: 3/2/2008 10:29:27 AMComment ID: 29987- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

live the man and report him to the police there is no use living in a home jail. don't make him make your lyf a living nightmare

lolly - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 4/9/2008 4:13:21 AMComment ID: 33076- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

get your kids and go. that is not safe and oviousely he can be a danger to you and your children. dont waste time go now and find your family. dont wait.

Anonymous - Posted: 6/16/2008 10:11:59 AMComment ID: 36882- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

Um I'd read this post fully, it was solved a while back and thanks to Mands, 'terrified' is now safe, and there were no children involved thank god.

Anonymous - Posted: 6/16/2008 10:14:09 AMComment ID: 36884- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

i know what you are going throught but i got away from him in time, i just left him and moved away and got a with my life and made a fresh start. have you tryed going to the poilce for help?

ladybird - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 7/24/2008 10:50:03 AMComment ID: 38291- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

I know that You love him and you think that he will change but Im sorry to tell you that he wont!!!!! Hes in love with the control he has over and thats it! If this man really loved you he would not Isolate you and threaten to kill you. In the begining its cute to have a man a little jealous, but it always gets worst!!! We are reading the paper EVERYDAY about a man killing his wife! You WILL BE NEXT. Take his threat serious because if you dont you will not make it. Call a family member you can trust and Tell them to secretly come and get you. Once you leave dont ever look back...YOU ARE STRONG ENOUGH TO DO THIS> I WISH YOU WERe in my family because I would Leave today to come get you. I pray that you leave right away you deserve better then your getting!!!!!

Anonymous - Posted: 12/24/2008 10:06:00 PMComment ID: 44964- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

Anon 44964 you are replying to a post from January of this year. Please read Anon 36884 (above).

Frances - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 12/25/2008 7:31:10 AMComment ID: 44968- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment

I'd like to know if "terrified" is ok? I know it has been over a year now but I am still concerned I would just like to know that she is ok and not back in this abusive relationship if anyone knows that she is ok please let us know.

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