Personal > I Cant Face Meeting Him (#16674)
I met this guy, through a friend, online, and we really hit it off, we talked about the same things, I sent him pictures of myself wearing a suit at my cousin's wedding, and I looked thin, due to the waistcoat and jacket, and he sent a picture of him, shirtless, my friend was ranting to me about how I was so lucky he liked me, and after a few weeks he asked me out, and then after a week we are now regularly telling each other we love each other, but we still haven't met each other face to face and I'm worried as he was gorgeous, he was perfect, and I'm fourteen stone, he was slim, muscular, with gorgeous eyes, I'm fat, bloated, with a huge nose, and every time we make plans to meet I pull out at the last minute as I can't stand the thought of him seeing me and just running away from me.
please help. Mikhail - 3/8/2010 12:21:40 PM - Country: United Kingdom - Close Problem Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment
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I'm sure your'e not 'fat, bloated and with a huge nose' however, it does seem like his idea of your appearance isn't accurate, so to avoid a painful and humiliating situation when you meet him, I would certainly advise sending a more realistic picture of yourself beforehand, maybe even a couple, then if he is that shallow (in which case you wouldn't want to know him anyway), he can do his runner then rather that in person, which would be awful for you. But again, I'm sure you are being way too hard on yourself. And if he can't see the beauty within, trust me, your'e better off. Way better off. It's bad enough that others judge us for our outward appearance but never judge yourself in this way.
Good luck.
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