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I left my husband of 15 years a year ago because I thought I didn't love him anymore and I went straight out with an ex. I realised then that I had hormone troubles and was the same with this guy as I was with my husband, they put me on medication which really helped but I can't help thinking that if I'd been given the medication when I was with my husband then I would never had left, we have two children together and we both find it very difficult not being with the children all the time. I think I would go back only now I am pregnant and this has confused the situation even more. I don't know whether to stay with this guy and have the baby or terminate the pregnancy and go back to my husband. Please help Tilly - 3/7/2010 9:15:49 AM - Country: United Kingdom - Close Problem Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment
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i think if you want to be with your husband for sure then go back but dont go if there is doubt or you will upset the situation all over again, the termination i cant agree to, i dont believe in them especially as in this case your doing it to make your life easier. the babies father may not want the termination either and his feelings should be considered. your husband my take you back pregnant anyway and bring the child up with you allowing access for the father. if your husband wont have you back pregnant and your current fella wants the termination then the choice is yours but thats something you should really think about, you will have to live with your decision and may resent any parties who made it hard for you not to have a termination and then your without either fella and your baby. you need a good long chat with your hubby and a hard think as to what your next step should be x
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