You should confront him, and tell him how you feel and what your situation is like. If he doesn't know what's the problem, he can't possibly fix it. Just tell him that he seem's out of himself, and ask him what's up if you need conversation starters. If this doesn't lead on to what you like, then simply tell him what you've written here. I'm sure it would solve everthing simply by saying you love him very much, and don't want to lose him. If he knows that, I give you 99% chance of the problem being fixed.
If you're still unsure that this course of action is wise, then put yourself in his shoes. What if he had been hanging around with a lot of female friends, and you got nervous/jealous everytime you met with him. The first thing you'd want to hear from him is "I love you, and I don't want to lose you". Knowing that, I'm sure you see now that this is what's best to get this problem sorted out. However, take the chance to understand that his feelings may be delicate, and that any unprovoked inquirery into "what his problem is" may be damaging. Simply put it nicely if you wish to ask, and say something like "How've you been?" or something similar...

Hope this helps...
Alan

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