Personal > How Can I Confront Her? (#16641)
I'm 14 and am trying to get to know this girl in my school better. We're pretty much friends and we make each other laugh a lot, but moving things on is proving to be tricky. I know that to move things on, I will eventually need to ask her out to do something with me sometime. I've also been encouraged to simply tell her I like her, from people on this site (this isn't my first post), just to see where I stand in her eyes.

Now, my problem is this. I notice that she is always hanging around with her friends. I'm not saying this is a bad thing, but it makes confronting her tricky. I need to get her on her own, so I can tell her I like her while I'm comfortable, and without being a nercous wreck. I'd hate to have to tell her these things with her friends being right there. All I need is a simple (or maybe not so simple) way of being able to talk to her face-to-face on our own.

Thanks in advance,
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just say "can have a word with you in private" and then find somewhere where you wont be heard, then tell her how you feel, then ask her out =) hope this helps =)
jah1991 - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 3/6/2010 7:00:27 AMComment ID: 60166- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this commentNominate This Reply For A Mug!
Thanks for the reply jah1991, but don't you think that might sound a bit odd for me to say to her. I mean, it may sound weird for me to speak so seriously about something, when we're actually quite close friends...
Something more casual would be great, but as you've probably figured, I'm not that good with words. Atleast, not in the "asking out" sense...
- Posted: 3/6/2010 7:21:26 PMComment ID: 60170- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this commentNominate This Reply For A Mug!
Well I'm like you and not good with words (doesn't help that I have a bit of a stutter and muddle my words up) but when I really like a girl I ask her out as friends and work from there, and 9/10 it works and I get the girl, try it out, you really need to pluck up the courage, and even if she says no she will still admire you for it. You could always confide in her friends and tell them your situation and they will probably help you out. It is always awkward when someone you like is always surrounded by friends, but if you tell her friends you may be surprised at how they will be willing to help you, they may even tell you if she likes you or not.
jah1991 - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 3/7/2010 4:39:35 AMComment ID: 60171- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this commentNominate This Reply For A Mug!
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