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Last August was when all this started. I met a guy (BOY Y) and we really hit it off, we went on a couple of dates but he was extremely shy and so was I. However, we both really liked each other and spoke over the internet and exchanged texts etc. and in September he came with me on a day trip with a couple of my friends. He was still shy, but the trip kind of reinforced our feelings for each other and a couple of days later his mate told me he'd not stopped speaking about me (sorry to sound big headed).

Then, another lad came along (and before you jump to conclusions, I did not like him at all). This new lad who I'll call BOY X to relieve confusion became a bit obsessive and claimed a lot of stuff about me causing a mutual friend of mine, BOY X's and BOY Y's to fall out with me, and me and BOY Y to lose contact. Me and the friend made up, but I never really plucked up the courage to speak to BOY Y any more. Although we never spoke, I still really liked him and couldn't stop thinking about him.

I met up with him recently though and my feelings still haven't changed over him. I'm sure his have though. I'm completely jealous over other girls with him, and I'm never usually like this at all, so I know it's some strong attraction I have over him. He still cares for me, he told me this, but I know he's just moved on whereas I'm still stuck in the same rut.

I think it's love. I'm probably wrong but I'll never know until I'm over it. Please tell me how to approach this, I don't know whether to fight the feelings and move on (evidently it hasn't worked previous) or tell him how I feel hoping he says the same back.
Sorry if this sounds a bit childish, I am only 17 and I've never really been attracted to someone as much as I am BOY Y. I'd appreciate any kind of responses. Thank you in advance. Girl Z - 3/5/2010 2:57:10 PM - Country: United Kingdom - Close Problem Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment
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well im in a similar situation, and the only thing i can suggest is to take him to some place which is secluded where you will be on your own and tell him how you truely feel, and explain what went on, as if you dont get it sorted it will play on your mind,
jah1991 - (Add As Friend) - Posted: 3/6/2010 6:54:33 AMComment ID: 60164- Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this commentNominate This Reply For A Mug!
Hey! It doesn't sound silly at all.. just go for it, tell him how you feel.. it's all or nothing, and if you love him.. there's no point in risking losing something that could be great just because you're afraid to tell him. He may feel the same, he may not, but he cares for you, as you've said.. maybe he's still shy as he was before and is feeling the exact same as you and is scared of your reaction. Go for it.. the worst thing that can happen is he can say no! Good luck xx
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